So I may be way behind on the social media bandwagon, thats ok. I just love Nicole Arbor – in fact, I wish I had been Vlogging rather than Blogging because seriously I have some of the same opinions as she does and could have made the exact same vlogs long ago!
I’ve been thinking about this for a bit and I love controversy – I mean, look what I do for a living. I teach naked yoga for god sakes. Controversy and attacks are daily, which is weird because the name says it all – NAKED. YOGA. It doesn’t say naked yoga sex orgy fondle session. Don’t get me wrong, I love that people have opinions and people VOICE those opinions. I love that I have opinions and I can voice them. I learned long ago that opinions are a dime a dozen.
What I would like to know is why is your opinion right? Why can’t I have my own that is different from yours? Why do you think that you have to change mine to match yours?? FOR EXAMPLE……..Why is that Whitney Thore felt that the ‘fat shaming’ video was directed at her and that she needed to attack Nicole and respond to it?
It doesn’t really matter because they both have opinions and they are both right – they are both right from their perspective. What they don’t need to do is start name calling and making it personal.
I could try and guess your (the royal you, the collective you – everyone/anyone) reason for attacking until Im blue in the face (great – now I sound like my mother) but Im fairly certain that it is related to a trauma – maybe your mom didn’t hug you enough or maybe worse, maybe you were beaten or some other horrible thing. Maybe not. I don’t care. Im just saying that whatever one person in a completely unrelated life says …. likely ISN’T ABOUT YOU!!
If you don’t like fat shaming videos – don’t go looking for them on the internet. If you don’t like naked yoga – don’t go. If you don’t like my blog – don’t read it. Simple.
If your friends know fat shaming videos hurt your feelings and then they forward you said videos – maybe you need new friends. I mean, why have someone like that in your life?? You wouldn’t let a bully hurt you…. your friends aren’t friends if they send you stuff that hurts your feelings, they are just bullies.
At the end of the day, you can’t control anyone just like no one can control you.
****This entire blog is my opinion and does not necessarily reflect the opinion of anyone else!!